Therapy for the workers.

I have been talking to various female friends lately and we all seem to be saying the same things.  (I will get to the girls in a bit.)

There is no man alive that has taken any of us out on a date that didn't expect something in return...if it would even be called a date.

My most recent adventure in relationships ended horribly.  Four months of my life wasted on an asshole.  The only "dates" we ever went on were before we actually became a couple, every other time I had to pay for myself.  The asshole before that expected some sort of sexual gratification for it.  Yes, you took your girlfriend on a date for once and she didn't have to pay for herself.  Oh wow.  Look at that.  Its like pissing in the potty when you're a kid, you don't always get rewarded.  Doing something nice for someone else should be good enough.  BUT, if that person wants to reward you, its up to them.

Most of us are getting too old to deal with that kind of stuff.  Its like "Oh wow! You did something expected! Congrats!" and the guy tries to rip your clothes off.  Amazing. Savage beast needs a tranquilizer and an ass beating.  While you're at it, punch his parents for not raising him to think with the higher brain in the body.

Its gotten to where its always expected from every female to put out or some nonsense over something so small that is more than likely expected to happen.  What they fail to realize is that not all of us are made the same nor do we come from the same background.  Some of us have self respect, morals, and self worth that we refuse to run around opening up to whomever does something good.

Not all of us put out.  SORRY.

Not every guy out there is a selfish bitch.  There are some good ones, but there are too few.  The day I meet one, I will more than likely die of shock from surprise.

Also, during these conversations, I've noticed guys bitching about girls wanting to date an "asshole".  To some guys, "the asshole" is jealousy rearing its ugly head.  Also the guy has more than likely done a few dick moves in his lifetime to warrant being called a "dick".  Not everyone wants to rush into a relationship.  If that is an asshole, you need to check yourself out in a mirror and smash your face into it because you're probably a lot worse.  Jealousy is a deadly thing my friend.  Get over yourself.

Not all of the guys complaining about that are pulling dick moves.  Some of them have legitimate reasons to feel this way and they are more than likely understanding ones.

Guys, don't think I am just hating on you.  I've spoken with a few male friends about quite a few things too.

Girls.  What the Hell are you thinking?  We're made to seduce, not string along and use and abuse and leave.  If that's how you want to be treated, you should be beaten weekly like the rug in the living room because that is all you are and will become.  You'll use yourself and let yourself be used to the point you are worn out.

Those types are giving the rest of us a bad name and on behalf of the good ones who can't seem to find decent guys, ram a hot poker in there and walk off into the Sahara desert.  Its hard enough as is.  Women's lib was done for a reason and you're taking it for granted.  The women then wanted equal rights and to be seen as people and not seen as breeding devices.  Shame on all of you.  There are too few good men out there as is.  If you get your filth on them, we are all doomed.

Also, don't put out immediately.  I mean seriously.  Sometimes you won't feel like it, but OH MY GOSH!  He will.  Imagine that one.  Damn.  You're opening yourself up for being used.  Congratulations, you have low self esteem.

From both sides of the human race, there had been a couple of things that made me feel like a squeezed hamster.

Diseases, people.  Diseases.  If she's too laid back about sucking dick and not gagging, you should get yourself checked.  If he's too pressing about sex or anything else, keep your mind and don't rush things.  If he/she uses you and ditches you, most definitely get yourself checked.  Its to the point where you can't trust other people these days.

Not to mention the "He said / She Said".  Oh my god.  I have never wanted to stab my eyes out so bad before in my life.  Always, ALWAYS, find both sides of the story before you make your judgment. Rational thinking can save a lot of problems.  "SHE SAID YOU DID THIS!"  "HE SAID YOU DID THAT!"  That's child's play. We all were suppose to have grown out of that in middle school.  I can understand confronting someone, but ACTUALLY LISTING TO A KNOWN MALIGNANT FORCE IS JUST STUPID.  If it has tried to cause problems for someone else or with you, get the other side of the story.  If this KMF was actually right, IT SHOULDN'T HAVE BEEN SCREAMING WOLF BEFORE.

At this point I have decided to become the creepy old cat-crazed lady that lives in the creepy house at the end of the creepy street with the creepy fence and wildly unkempt yard that only comes out at night.  Both sides have too much shit they leave behind in a disastrous wake and I don't feel like playing nurse maid to one of these victims.  This way of thinking is leaving me alone for the rest of my life.  I'm more than likely better off.  The human race drives me crazy anyway.