Thursday, October 22, 2009

And the beats keep on repeating…

I find it rather interesting how the same situations arise with new people holding the reins.  Always the same problem, just different faces.

Unfortunately, the same problems don't always qualify for the same resolve or answer.  I find it rather hard to solve a certain issue when it has come up several times already.  The unfairness involved in this one is like wedging a knife between a relative's shoulder blades and twisting it around in their spine.

You ask someone to do something so small, but they don't. You have no idea why its so hard to do as requested, but because of it you can't just move on.  It will always be in your face no matter what and plague you until you figure out what to do.

There's several steps you can take, one being the most extreme and the other rolling over and letting the bus hit you.  There's always an in between, but it can be just as bad as the two just listed.  You can complain about it and put your foot down and wind up friendless or you can complain, put your foot down, and just have things be a little rocky until they get better.

By this point, your head is pounding from thinking about it because no matter where you go or what you do with the disease, it will pop back up like a zit on a wedding day.

You can't change everyone, but you can change certain things about your life to avoid the people who refuse to change for the better or even see the wrong in their actions.  However, when dealing with certain people, its a bit harder...

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